thanks again you 2. When I got the center console apart I noticed that the person that installed my shifter never did set the stops. Also the bolts on the stick weren't locktighted good (they used the GM locktight stuff instead of blue locktight, doesn't work as good). The right rear bolt was also loose. I was able to fix the rear bolt, the handle, and stops. I couldn't check the other 3 base bolts since I didn't have my other allen wrenches here.
Car shifts much better again. I was having and issue going from 4-3 on a power downshift but it is now fixed.