To make a very log story short my girlfriend of more than a year decided to break up with me this weekend. It came rather unexpectedly and her reasoning was that she could not marry me. Now let me set the background I am 22 years old going on 23 and I am not looking for marriage in the next year or two until I can get established and be able to provide. My ex I guess now as hard as it is to say that just graduated the Coast Guard Academy and is busy getting herself established. So I guess I am looking for any advice you might have, the reason I ask is because I know that many of you are married and have kids and have probably been through this at one point and time. Thanks ahead of time.